Over the past few months, I have been writing down what clients thanked me for. I did this because I wanted to find out if I am aware of the change that I create and because I noticed that I struggle to allow compliments.
And I felt inspired to share some of the most common feedback that I received (this is a list with no particular order):
- Thanks to you I feel totally confident to deal with any challenges in my life and like I can handle them.
Thanks to you I finally know who I am at soul level (I had no idea!) and what my mastery is.
Thank you for your time, your wisdom and your support.
You just saved my life, I felt my pain and an immediate relief at the same time.
Now, you have to know that hardly any of these people were particularly looking to find out more about what they thanked me for. They were all struggling with dis-ease and/or with annoying patterns that repeated themselves in their relationships or in their career.
But what they thanked me for were – at least that’s my conclusion for the moment – the missing pieces in their life’s puzzle:
- challenges are not scary when you have access to all parts of your soul’s essence (the Feminine and the Masculine)
- imbalances in your life can be dealt with once you know who you are at soul level and what your mastery is
- your pain leaves when you turn towards it instead of pushing it away
And the interesting thing is that these were all the missing pieces in my life, too. And I deeply appreciate the courage it takes to reach out to me for help because I remember how nervous I was each time I was asking someone for support with my own challenges. And that’s okay.
Here is to us loving who we are and finding the best support for ourselves.